And considering your ruling planet, Mercury, is retrograding in the relationship sector of your chart this month, slowing down is exactly what you need right now. Uranus, the planet of change, is retrograde in your first house of self until November 7, and then it backspins into Taurus and your 12th house of endings for the rest of this month. Plus, the planet of luck goes retrograde in your second house of self worth on November 11.